Thursday, October 30, 2008

Thursday, October 23, 2008

10 things NOT to say on a first date

First dates are stressful, period. You don't want to lie or stretch the truth per se, but you also don't want to send your date running off to hail a cab before you've even ordered the cheese plate. Basically, the goals of a successful first date are to reveal that adorable, endearing part of yourself, learn more about the stranger sitting across from you, and to see if there is any connection between you two crazy kids. Obviously, it's important to be honest, but some of the more intimate parts of you are well, sorta personal, and no one's forcing you to spill all the beans. (Besides, everybody is intrigued by a little mystery and you want to save something for the second and third dates, right?) We don't really believe there are any hard and fast rules when it comes to dating, and despite what movies would have you think, there is no such thing as the "perfect date," so take these with a grain of salt. Still, here's hoping you find a couple of them helpful, and good luck out there.

1. "My ex is crazy."
There's a fine line between love and hate, but both are equally fueled by passion. If someone even mentions their ex on a first date, watch out, you could be entering into a three-way relationship. Brace yourself: drama ahead! Anyway, if you're not over your ex, keep it to yourself. Your date certainly doesn't want to hear about it.

2. "I would like to get married and have kids asap."
Slow. That. Roll. Whether you're a man or a woman, uttering those words automatically puts pressure on an already delicate, stressful meeting, not to mention the fact that it's a foolproof way to scare someone off and fast.

3. "Who are you voting for?"
There's a saying in the south about not bringing up politics or religion in polite company. Plenty of couples don't always share political (or religious) views, and learn to make things work. But when you're trying to make a good first impression, it's probably best to avoid overly emotional topics in order to avoid a sparring match. (Look at it this way, if you become a couple, you'll have plenty of opportunities to fight later!)

4. "Can you pay the check? I'm broke."
Hey, the economy is in the toilet. Of course you're broke. We're all broke. But common courtesy dictates that the person who did the date asking offer to pay the bill. Chances are, if your date has good manners, they'll offer to split it or pay the tip. Let's face it, gone are the days where the guy automatically must pay for dinner or he's a loser. But no matter what the circumstances are, flat out asking your date to pay the bill is a major turn-off.

5. "What's your favorite TV show?"
C'mon, we can do better than that. Asking about hobbies and other interests can lead to great conversation, but the last message you want to convey is that your favorite activity is watching the tube with a tub of ice cream. Save talking about "America's Next Top Model" for the work water cooler or something.

6. "Where did you go to school?"
Believe it or not, many people didn't go to college, and totally resent being put on the spot with this tired old question. And while plenty of grads are happy to wax on and on about their "glory years" or whatever, it's probably better to ask something like, "Have you always lived here?" "How did you choose your career?" or another more general question that might lead you to discussing educational background. Again, it may seem strange, but for all kinds of reasons, a lot of people have negative knee-jerk reactions to this seemingly innocuous question.

7. "Can I take your picture?"
Creepy much? But yeah, I have girlfriends who've been waylaid by this gem. For real. Maybe it's the thought of him showing his buddies your photo and bragging about bagging you, or even the image of him fawning over your pic tacked up on one of those cray-cray serial killer wall collages. Either way, ick.

8. "I'm poly-(fill in the blank)"
There are folks who are polyamorous (def: the desire, practice, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved); polygamist (def: the practice of marriage to more than one spouse simultaneously); and yes, some are even polyester salesmen (def: dudes who peddle chintzy wares). Right then. Unless you met that person on a "special" site devoted to that kind of stuff, chances are your date won't appreciate your um, open-minded ways.

9. "So I just got out of rehab."
So maybe you have some personal problems you've been working on. Perhaps you've been in therapy since you were 13 years old. Whatever the case may be, it's probably best not to introduce your new romantic interest to your BIG, SCARY ISSUES, at least not yet. Everybody has problems big and small, but the first date is more about showing off your personality, not painting yourself as a psychotic addict (even if you are, just a smidge). Note: If you are seriously in the midst of a personal crisis, and that includes excessive drug use and/or major psychological treatment, not to be all judgey, but you probably shouldn't be on a date right now.

10. "So ya wanna come back to my place?"
Not everyone is old-fashioned about first dates. The right time to sleep with someone is up to you, but numerous informal polls, um, around the office show that when a guy propositions a woman for sex on the first date, she tends to get skeeved, and when a girl does the same, many dudes are likely to file her in the one night stand category. Double standard? Sure. And yes, some couples do have sex on the first date and there is nothing wrong with that. But I think you know what I'm sayin'...
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Wednesday, October 22, 2008

The soul gives our mind and body brith

Avoid the dark

Creative picture


Julie,I have to say you are the best looking woman I have seen on the internet byfar. Your pics are absolutely amazing and I love your videos too.

Just thought you might want to know. I work for a localmagazine in the US and I do alot of work for variuos models in photoshop Iwould love to use of your pics and send it back to you if you dont mind.There is one pic of you in a pink bikini I could do wonders with. Take careand I hope you catch these bastards. Luv ya.Dano


Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Business offer For SeeJulie

Hi Julie,Thanks for the add. I sent you an email last night regarding a business offer because I am thinking of opening a restaurant in Jamaica and Costa Rica and possibly some stores. Did you get the email? If you are interested just respond by email and I will contact you when I get back from Europe and Africa. I don't know if you have any business background, but let me know of your education background. I think that you will make a great front of house manager because of your social edicate, and you can train for a General manager position. I will make it worth your while so that you can stay home more with your son more often. I dont know of your lifestyle, but I know that kids need to have their parents as much as possible when they are young, especially. Do you model for fun or is it just a way to pay the bills? My email was from :)and myspace page is myspace.com:) I just started it back up after shutting it down before I went overseas in April. Thanks again and take care, Steven

I had a chat with my modeling agent in Jamaica..

6:16pm Bobby

i tried calling you to go hedo 2 this weekend and also for a 2009 calendar but can't get through to you, why


6:17pmYulianaHi
I'm not in Jamaica


6:20om Bobby

ok i told you when u leaving jamaica to let me be awhere but you don't, the ppl you met at hedo 2 was here at hedo 3 shooting calendar and wanted you to come to hedo 3 to shoot there calendar


6:20pmYuliana

Whatever its allways the same BS ,When I 'm there doing nothing bored you NEVER have anything for me to do untill when I go then you tell me you had this and that..this and that ..
I'm about getting things done
not waiting 3 months for a job

Bobby give me your overseas # now
6:32pm
hats the #
6:33pmYuliana
For what Why you can write what you have to say ?

Bobby 636pm

how would i know that u r not here?
6:39pmYuliana
We talk when I was there in Jamaica AND chatted ..
6:40pm Bobby
listen i tried calling this is the time clients need u ok, so thats it
6:40pmYuliana
If you have any jobs that I can fy in and pays great then book me okay .

Bobby 640pm
well one of the job was US7000 FOR kfc

Yuliana 6:42pm
really was that a casting call?
for that ?


6:43pm Bobby
no a call, every advertising agency in kgn have your pics
6:43pmYuliana
who is kgn?
6:44pm Bobby
the advertising agencies LOL
6:45pmYuliana
So they wanted to see me before?

Bobby 6:50pm
they have your picture thats why they wanted you, one of my other models went and did it, they want a total bye out now so they want to let the commercial run in trinidad.

Yuliana 7:00pm
so I lost on that sucks :(

Bobby 7:20pm
thtas life and even hedo 2 this weekend they have miss black nude america there
yes today
thats why i tried calling u fr sunday

My girl Kim Kardashian got kicked off


Well this is no surprise; Kim Kardashian got the boot on Dancing With The Stars. The girl is useless and we discovered that when we saw her try to shake her ass while doing the Mamba. Actually, let me correct myself. We discovered that a long time ago when we saw her sex tape. You know, it must sting that she got kicked off so early, because now the media will soon forget all about her. Because in reality, and not the reality of her TV show, Kim has nothing left to offer. Anyway, here’s a clip of her and her family discussing her being voted off the show. It’s funny that her parents and sisters console her like a 5-year-old who just came in last in a swim meet.


Sunday, September 14, 2008

Club hopping with Julie in Miami South Beach

Love is the Glue that sticks me to You by Craig Grant

Shopping at Sawgrass Mall

With over 270 manufacturer's outlets, retail outlets and other name brand discounters, Sawgrass Mills is one of Florida's premiere shopping destinations and a major tourist attraction. The mall has two food courts, many restaurants and a movie theater


Saturday, September 13, 2008

I love eating Exotic fruit


I guess because I 'm exotic ...


This week I been eating this fruit called ''Mamey''.


Very popular fruit in Florida, the Caribbean islands, and Central America. It is sometimes cultivated outside of the Americas. Fruit is large, up to a foot long with orange flesh tasting somewhat like a flavorful pumpkin. Many varieties are available and the fruit is highly esteemed.
Description: Large tree from 60-140ft. Hardiness: The tree is usually too tender to fruit in California. Young trees are highly susceptible to frost.Growing Environment: Grow in full sun. The mamey sapote flourishes in tropical climates with rainfall above 75" a year. Trees to not take well to periods of drought and will quickly loose their leaves.Propagation: The best varieties are usually propagated by grafting. Grafted trees may bear in 1-4 years. Seedling trees take 8-10 years to fruit.
Uses: Almost always eaten fresh out of hand or used in desserts and drinks. The mamey sapote was cultivated by the native peoples of Central America for hundred of years.
Native Range: Native to low elevation areas between southern Mexico and northern South America. It is now extensively cultivated in Central America, the Caribbean, and south Florida.

I love this song ..75, Brazil Street (Original Mix

75, Brazil Street (Original Mix) - Nicola Fasano & Pat Rich

Most Expensive Coffee in the World


The most expensive coffee in the world does not hail from Jamaica or Hawaii, but instead from Indonesia.
Kopi Luwak the most expensive coffee in the world does exist, and those who drink the expensive coffee insist that it is made from coffee beans eaten, partly digested and then excreted by the Common palm civet, a weasel-like animal.
“Kopi” the Indonesian word for coffee along with “luwak” is local name of this animal which eats the raw red coffee beans. The civet digests the soft outer part of the coffee cherry, but does not digest the inner beans and excretes them.
Apparently the internal digestion ends up adds a unique flavor to the beans, removing the bitter flavor, and then beans are then picked up by locals and sold. The most expensive coffee beans can cost up to $600 a pound, and up to $50 per cup, if you can get over the fact that you are drinking such a strange brew.
You would know if you drank the most expensive coffee in the world, because the quantities of it are tiny amounts.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Britney Spears Had Sex at 14 and Started Taking Drugs Aged 15 Says Her Mom

Lynne Spears’ shocking revelations also include claims Britney begandrinking at 13 and was introduced to drugs when she went to Los Angeles torecord her first hit.
The ‘Toxic’ singer was even allegedly caught with cocaine and cannabis on aprivate jet when she was just 16.
Dispelling claims Britney lost her virginity to her former pop starboyfriend Justin Timberlake, Lynne says in her book ‘Through the Storm’ herdaughter first had sex with an 18-year-old American football player whileshe attended her local high school in Kentwood, Louisiana, for a year beforebecoming a teen pop star.
Lynne admits she allowed Britney, aged 16, to sleep with Justin.
A source told Britain’s The Sun newspaper: “Lynne thought Britney was inlove and Justin was good for her.”
Lynne claims her daughter experimented with alcohol after joining Disney TVshow ‘The Mickey Mouse Club’.


Lynne – who has had a turbulent relationship with Britney since she splitfrom ex-husband Kevin Federline in 2006 – admits in the memoir she regretshanding control of Britney’s career over to her managers and allowing her tobe promoted as a sex object at the age of 17 in the music promo for ‘BabyOne More Time’.
Lynne, 53, believes Britney’s behavior as a teenage star led to her publicbreakdown earlier this year, which involved her being put in a psychiatrichospital twice and losing custody of her two children, Sean Preston, almostthree, and Jayden James, 23 months.

Britney Spears is accompanied by friends and security as she walks through the Mirage Hotel and Casino to attend The Beatles Cirque De Soleil performance in Las Vegas, Nevada -

Red sunglass Julie

Terrorists on Saturday Night Live

Terrorists on Saturday Night Live

Monday, September 1, 2008

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Positive Thinking







Positive thinking is a practice - positive thinking is something you learn over time. Positive thinking is not something that you were born with. The Creating Power course that I will introduce you to teaches you how to train your mind and subconscious mind to become more positive so that you practice positive thinking throughout your life.
A little background about positive thinking.
I'm sure many of you have heard of positive thinking and probably have read books about the subject. Many people believe that positive thinking is something you do on occasion. I often hear them say: "I'm a positive thinker, things will improve I know that." This is good - but it's not enough to create positive results in your life.
Why not?
Because positive thinking is not an attitude that you turn to when things go wrong.
Positive thinking is not something you do on occasion or keep in the back of your head.
Positive thinking is a practice! That's right a practice! Positive thinking is something you have to do everyday as often as possible when ever you can. By practicing positive thinking everyday you create a state of mind where you are constantly positive - it becomes a state of being positive. In the end you create a tremendous amount of positive energy - that only creates positive situations for you everyday.
In some cases Doctors now believe that having a positive attitude - that is practicing positive thinking everyday can improve your health. In fact, Researchers found that having an optimistic outlook can do wonders for a patient's recovery - especially for those who have just gone through surgery. Researchers studied 16-patients over a 30-year period - examining their attitudes and recovery after surgery.
"In each case the better a patient's expectations about how they would do after surgery or some health procedure, the better they did," said author Donald Cole, of the Institute for Work and Health in Toronto. The review says that the power of positive thinking is real, said ABCNEWS' Medical Correspondent Dr. Nancy Snyderman on Good Morning America today. "This mind-body connection that we have been toying with for the past couple of decades really does have hard science behind it," Snyderman said. The study looked at patients who had a wide range of conditions - from back pain to heart problems. They found that patients who thought they would do well after surgery - did do well. Those who thought they wouldn't do so well - didn't fare well.
So how do we do this? How do we make positive thinking a part of our daily lives so that we stop defeating ourselves and make our lives better?
Actually it's quite easy - the trick is that it requires discipline and practice.
First begin by observing yourself. Pay attention to your thoughts. See how many are positive and how many are negative. Keep a notepad handy and keep track of the number of positive thoughts that you have and the number of negative thoughts you have. At the end of your day - take a look at the number - if you have more negative thoughts then there's some work to do.
The next day - observe your thoughts again. This time pay attention to the types of negative thoughts that you are having. See how they impact your life. Are these negative thoughts a part of reality - is that the way life is. For example: if you say you hate your job - do you really hate it? If you say your boss is a pain - is he/she really a pain? If these negative thoughts are a part of your life - then you have created your own negative reality.
That's right you created it. Every negative belief you have is manifested in your life. These beliefs are based on the thoughts you have. Thoughts repeated over and over again become a belief and a belief becomes reality. Negative thoughts repeated over and over again will create a negative reality. Positive thoughts repeated over and over again - create a positive reality.
First you have to understand your negative thoughts and beliefs then only can you begin changing them. Once you begin changing them you begin creating a positive attitude - and ultimately you begin practicing positive thinking everyday. In order to get the most out of positive thinking you have to make it a way of life.
So begin by getting rid of those negative thoughts and negative beliefs, which serve you no purpose, except to make you miserable. Then you'll be able to begin having a positive attitude and start enjoying life again.
The next step is to start using all your inner powers to so you're your mind gets used to positive thinking and so that you are always carrying a positive attitude. This will lead you to creating the life you want. These inner powers all start in your mind - which is the most powerful force you have. It is a force - that when used as it should - can create wonderful things in your life.

Halle Berry and Her Little One

Halle Berry at the Los Angeles Zoo and Botanical Gardens with her baby daughter Nahla Ariela Aubry in Los Angeles, California


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